Many books exist on writing memoirs. One of my favorites is On Writing Well by William Zinser. His suggestion is to write one story per day based on whatever comes to mind at the time you sit down to write. After 2-3 months of writing, you can review your stories and see how your writing “voice” has developed. Sometimes, think of a topic or story can be challenging.
Ideas for Stories
Author Richard Stone has written two books which focus on how stories can have a healing influence. In both The Healing Art of Storytelling and Stories: The Family Legacy he suggests that you draw maps of places you have visited or lived.
You can also draw blueprints of houses where you lived, schools you attended, or places you worked. Because our lives are filled with experiences, often thinking of these places is enough generate many stories. Family trees are also great for generating story ideas and remembering events with favorite (and not so favorite) aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents.
My Childhood Neighborhood
From 3 to 12 I lived outside of Chattanooga in the small community of Collegedale. With the ability to view any part of the planet via Google Maps, I revisited my old neighborhood and took a screenshot. Using Procreate, I drew some notes onto the map. I was reminded of many stories that occurred in my neighborhood.
- In the 1970s, a tornado destroyed a house under construction in our neighborhood. The spiked nailed panels that held the roof trusses together were scattered and we bent them around our arms to make Roman-styled spiked arm bands.
- There were several trails in the vacant lot owned by my parents next to our house. The back property line was shared with an adjacent cow field, where my friends and I played many games.
- My friend Jeremy lived in a duplex at the bottom of the hill. Later on, his family moved to a house on the same street.
- My first piano teacher lived a couple of houses away from us. Despite her best efforts, I was more interested in watching Batman on TV and was more concerned about being back at home by 5:30 to watch Batman than complete a full 30-minute lesson.
As you can see, this mapping technique is a great way to develop stories and remember events. There are many more stories I could tell just from viewing the map. I’m sure that if my brother or sister viewed the same map, they could generate many of their own stories based on their experiences.
With little effort, I could make a map for other places I have lived:
- Murfreesboro, TN
- Nashville, TN
- Hot Springs, AR
- Texarkana, TX
- Chattanooga, TN
I could have easily zoomed out to display the entire city. Had I done so, I could have shared stories about walking to school, my school playground, and many other events.
I encourage you to think about all of the places you have visited or lived. Draw a map or create one using Google Earth (or another mapping application). You’ll be amazed at how many events you can remember.